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6 Things To Quit Right Now


Most times we are bewildered by the things life throws at us and decided enough is enough. You don’t want to take it anymore. The overwhelming stress of what is happening pushes us to surrender our will power to the strains of life. By this post I am going to give six (6) things you need to quit right now and stop doing as it’s a recipe for failure and it will breed contempt and eventually pull you back.









1.     When we try to please everyone: We are what we think, you determine what people think about you, you are unique and being yourself makes you original. The moments you try to be someone you’re not then you have missed the point. A lot of people spend half their lives trying to please everyone and gain approval of everyone. This is not meant to last as the people you’re trying to please will see through your pretense. Learn to be original and stop living in the image of people you admire.


2.     The fear of change: The only thing constant in life is change. Change is what makes us human. Living in your comfort zone will not see any improvement in your life. If there is a way to better your life it’s important to make decisions that will improve your situation. Every time we see people who fear the unknown and they are pessimistic of outcomes of their decisions. You have to quit the fear of change because the most successful people in this world are people who are not ready to sit back doing a 9 to 5 job but are ready to break away from norms and achieve greatness.


3.     Living in the past:  Let by-gones be by-gones. The man who lives in the past is definitely not ready to move on in life. We are products of our past but are not supposed to be defined by it. We find out some people who have achievements and are still mesmerized by it but fail to move forward due to that. There are some people who refuse to live their lives due to issues in the past like the loss of a loved one, job etc. this has a drastic effect on them that they are stuck in their own world. To be successful in life one needs to move on from these situations. If this is not done then it won’t be possible to concentrate and take the chances that come in the future. Quit living in the past from today and start living your life.


see also: why no one talks about quitting anymore


4.     Putting yourself down: I keep on asking myself this question why are people so pessimistic? 70% of goals are never achieved because they are dead even before starting. We are so scared of repeating mistakes that have happened in the past. But why do we do this to ourselves? Do we hate ourselves so much? We are all guilty about this if you look at it. Putting yourself down won’t help us to achieve what we plan to do in life. Learn to overcome your fears and take any opportunity that comes your way.


5.     Overthinking situations: This goes together with living in the past. Most times we find ourselves unable to leave our current position in life because we scared about the next possible step. Overthinking a possibility will take us nowhere rather it will present more complications on why we shouldn’t take that step. Make a decision based on the facts right in front of your face. If you overthink it then you will have a thousand reasons not to take that step. I am not saying you shouldn’t think before leaping but I am saying you should not dwell on situations because 90% of the time it’s already past and thinking about it won’t change the outcome.


6.     Stop putting your needs last: we all have needs in life. The moment you start putting people before you, you miss living. Always love yourself and take care of yourself as much as you can; this will boost your self-esteem and ensure that you’re on top of your game and not behind your mates.


So guys these are the six things to quit right now if you want to live a life taking opportunities.









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