6 Things To Quit Right Now
Most times we are bewildered by the things life throws at us and
decided enough is enough. You don’t want to take it anymore. The overwhelming
stress of what is happening pushes us to surrender our will power to the strains
of life. By this post I am going to give six (6) things you need to quit right
now and stop doing as it’s a recipe for failure and it will breed contempt and
eventually pull you back.
1.
When we
try to please everyone: We are what we think, you determine what
people think about you, you are unique and being yourself makes you original. The
moments you try to be someone you’re not then you have missed the point. A lot of
people spend half their lives trying to please everyone and gain approval of
everyone. This is not meant to last as the people you’re trying to please will
see through your pretense. Learn to be original and stop living in the image of
people you admire.
2.
The fear
of change: The only thing constant in life is change. Change is what
makes us human. Living in your comfort zone will not see any improvement in
your life. If there is a way to better your life it’s important to make
decisions that will improve your situation. Every time we see people who fear
the unknown and they are pessimistic of outcomes of their decisions. You have
to quit the fear of change because the most successful people in this world are
people who are not ready to sit back doing a 9 to 5 job but are ready to break
away from norms and achieve greatness.
3.
Living
in the past: Let
by-gones be by-gones. The man who lives in the past is definitely not ready to
move on in life. We are products of our past but are not supposed to be defined
by it. We find out some people who have achievements and are still mesmerized
by it but fail to move forward due to that. There are some people who refuse to
live their lives due to issues in the past like the loss of a loved one, job
etc. this has a drastic effect on them that they are stuck in their own world. To
be successful in life one needs to move on from these situations. If this is
not done then it won’t be possible to concentrate and take the chances that
come in the future. Quit living in the past from today and start living your
life.
see also: why no one talks about quitting anymore
see also: why no one talks about quitting anymore
4.
Putting
yourself down: I keep on asking myself this question why are
people so pessimistic? 70% of goals are never achieved because they are dead
even before starting. We are so scared of repeating mistakes that have happened
in the past. But why do we do this to ourselves? Do we hate ourselves so much? We
are all guilty about this if you look at it. Putting yourself down won’t help
us to achieve what we plan to do in life. Learn to overcome your fears and take
any opportunity that comes your way.
5.
Overthinking
situations: This goes together with living in the past. Most times we
find ourselves unable to leave our current position in life because we scared
about the next possible step. Overthinking a possibility will take us nowhere
rather it will present more complications on why we shouldn’t take that step. Make
a decision based on the facts right in front of your face. If you overthink it
then you will have a thousand reasons not to take that step. I am not saying
you shouldn’t think before leaping but I am saying you should not dwell on
situations because 90% of the time it’s already past and thinking about it won’t
change the outcome.
6.
Stop putting
your needs last: we all have needs in life. The moment you
start putting people before you, you miss living. Always love yourself and take
care of yourself as much as you can; this will boost your self-esteem and
ensure that you’re on top of your game and not behind your mates.
So guys
these are the six things to quit right now if you want to live a life taking opportunities.
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