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3 Simple Steps To Remain Positive Despite Setbacks



How to Remain Positive Despite Setbacks
A Postive Mind 


"No matter how things are rough the courage and will power to move on is the ultimate and it’s what differentiates a fighter from someone who gives up."

You have to remain positive despite any setback. You do not owe anyone that excuse just for people to sympathize with your cause. There are a lot of people who do this and rely on an excuse not to be where they are. There is no ordeal in this world that does not occur without obstacles. Obstacles are a way of life. Set backs are a constant occurrence in life. There are individuals that keep going despite some setbacks. They are fighters and they have this will power to never stop until they achieve that goal. It is the mindset that separates the best from the rest if you wake up each day with a goal then you would have put into consideration the obstacles and setbacks that might occur and mapped out strategies to overcome them.

"Start now, start where you are, start with fear, start with pain. Start with doubt. Start with hands shaking. Start with voice trembling but start. Start and don’t stop. Start where you are, with what you have. Just… start."

Your thoughts and actions need to be positive in order to have an attractive personality. The way you think has a lot of effect on the way and how you act. And if one has positive thoughts in his mind then that also gives him the confidence boost to overcome setbacks. Situations and circumstances in life can always be full of highs and lows. In order to adopt a positive outlook towards life, you need to find the brighter side of things and focus on the good parts.

By developing our personality we can boost our self esteem and have positive thoughts which will in turn drive positive actions and finally yield a positive outcome. There are people who do not have the power to persevere through hurdles they get discouraged easily when something disrupts the flow. What if you are faced with a situation where you need to make a decision that will either make or mar your achievements what would you do? The simple solution is just to sit back and understand the situation. Then secondly you need to look for alternative ways to avoid those kinds of situations from coming up then finally decide on what approach to use to prevent future occurrence of this set back.



Follow these three steps to keep your positivity level high despite setbacks.

1.     Acknowledge your problem and setback
From the Nigerian Author of the book  “ Things fall apart” we can deduce that things fall apart for things to fall back together and breakdowns can create breakthroughs. Once we can acknowledge the set back then we can act towards eliminating it and coming through greener on the other side. We find out that once we acknowledge the problem and we conquer our fear we remain more positive, we become wiser and stronger. we have to remain positive despite setbacks.


2.   Stop pointing fingers
This is a common practice, people tend to apportion blame when bad things happen to them, and they point fingers at others and blame spiritual attacks. No one is immune to set backs so stop blaming people by so doing we are in the right direction in remaining positive.


3.   Time heals all wounds
 Time heals everything, to remain positive in life you need to allow time pass and heal us. Most of us are so impatient that we end up ruining other aspects of our life. Positivism is not something to be rushed into, take your time and access the situation. By so doing you will achieve whatever you have set up as your goal.

There you have it, 3 simple steps to remain positive despite setbacks. You can add your steps in the comment box so we can share ideas together.

Feel free to share your own experience on the comment box below.


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